The time you spend in your 20s is crucial in developing who you are as a person and what you want out of life. This is a complex time where there is a challenge around every corner. You may believe that this tedious new way of life would be better navigated with a partner. And while this may be helpful in some aspects, it can also make this time more difficult.
You are going to be making a ton of decisions that will drastically affect your future, so concerning yourself with someone else’s opinion may, unfortunately, cloud your judgment and cause you to make decisions you would not normally make.
Whether this is a newfound relationship or one that transcended college, there are factors that will cause tension that may and sometimes will cause the destruction of your relationship.
Let’s take a look at some of those most common factors:
You have no idea what type of career you are going to end up with in the future, so this is the time to explore different areas. Whether this is going back to school or pursuing a regular job, chances are you and your partner are not on the same career wavelength. This is more than okay since this is your time to develop your identity; however, this may not be good for your relationship. If you can support each other in your different endeavors, more power to you. Unfortunately, many couples cannot handle this scenario.
Your 20s are a whole new ball game. Finally that fake ID you have been carrying around is a notion of the past. Take your newfound freedom and party your ass off. There is no better time than your 20s to do this, as most people tend to settle down later in life. It is a lot easier to go out five nights a week now than it will be when you have a husband and a child.
Many people in relationships get annoyed when their partners are out partying until the wee hours of the morning, but what better time is there to do this than now? This can cause a lot of tension and fighting, but if your partner can’t handle your social life, how are they going to be able to handle anything serious that may occur over the course of the relationship?
Different Groups Of Friends
As you and your partner both continue to grow as people, both of your groups of friends may change. This is normal, but as your circle of friends drift apart, this can create distance between you and your partner. At the end of the day, you may be too tired to socialize or to hang out with your partner, so you resort to the weekends.
The problem with this is that you also want to spend time with your friends. You can’t devote all of your free time to a relationship or you will actually drive yourself insane. You need an external support system. When you divide time between these two entities, this causes space between you and your partner. This distance can lead to fights and arguments that will negatively affect your relationship.
If you are holding onto your college relationship, chances are you don’t live within 10 miles of one another. Long distance relationships are inherently difficult and taking part in one during your 20s makes it that much harder. Maybe one of you is fortunate enough to move out of your parents’ house, while the other is not. This can and will create even more problems. While you partner is stuck at home, you may be out and about, moving on in life while he or she is stuck in the same place. Evolving at different rates can cause a lot of issues within a relationship that may ultimately lead to its demise.
This isn’t college anymore; this is the real world. You and your partner are both going to be exposed to all different kinds of people. It is completely natural to be intrigued by these different people, but temptation is not always good in a relationship.
By giving into this attraction, you may find yourself in an uncomfortable situation that may result in cheating. Once trust has been broken, it is beyond difficult to gain it back. As you are constantly exposed to different people, your “type” may change and, as a result, you are no longer enticed by the person you are currently dating.
Some people are immediately ready to settle down in their 20s, while others wish to push that off until their 30s. This often is a determining factor in regards to the future of the relationship. If people are not in agreement about where they are headed, what’s the point of even being in the relationship? You will constantly have these thoughts in the back of your mind, as you go through the typical motions. Eventually, however, the question ‘what’s the point’ will get to you.
I hate to say it, but this is a factor in relationships. If your parents are still supporting you financially, how do you expect to be taken seriously? Of course, help now and then is important, but if you are completely dependent on them, this can become a huge issue.
You are going to change a lot during this time. Who you are at 21 is most certainly not going to be who you are at 25. As you further immerse yourself in the “real world,” you will be exposed to situations you have never experienced before. These different scenarios will cause you to change your beliefs, opinions and how you see the world. Think back on your past, would the person you are now date the person you dated when you were 18? Absolutely not, the same goes for the time in your 20s.
You Outgrow One Another
As you mature, the person you once thought you loved may change. You think this is the best you can do and that there is no other person out there quite like this one. Let’s be honest for a moment: how do you know there is no one out there better suited for you if you do not go out and look? There is no possible way. You need this time to explore your options and find out what you really want and don’t want in a partner. Each person you are with will not only teach you this, but things about yourself as well.
It is an amazing feeling to be able to stand on your own two feet. This is the time you can finally (hopefully) break free from your parents grasp and lead the life you want to. Now is not the time to hold back in any regard. Your partner may not always agree with your decisions, but the fact is that they are your decisions. Do not compromise your beliefs because for another person. At the end of the day, the only person you can count on is yourself. So use this time to learn how to survive on your own.
It's time say "Holiday!!!". Where are we going this time? Let's Thailand, Let's Go Hat Yai...
And so, I am sharing a free and easy trip itinerary for you.
When the first landed, I am so excited, I'm now in Thailand. Sawasdee Krub...
I took a flight by AirAsia to my destination and the stewardess is always amaze me in term of outlook and their smile. This is my third time going Thailand and it is not the end yet. I book a hotel near Hat Yai town named Aloha Hotel. The environment of the hotel is quite good and better view from other same price range hotel. See!
After we checked in and we decided to have a city tour to buy grocery for these 4 days trip. The first station, you may go to Hat Yai Train Station to have a picture and then go to Robinsons, Odean Shopping Mall, Lee Garden and much more road side stalls. The grocery are selling in good deal and those located at road side you may start bargain the price too. They are fluent in Chinese, Thai, Ho…
I just take a look with many journal and blog which are related to the "Mole People". Do you know what is Mole People?, How they look likes?, What language do they speaks?, Where are they come from? and many more. Actually, I am very interested with this topic. Unfortunately, my mind force me to check this out and let take a look with this picture. Then, you will start you researching about the Mole People.
What did you see? A beautiful woman with a pair of big eyes. How about this? What did you see? A big eyes monster with nose and big claws. The second picture on above is one of the Mole People picture which I found on the internet. They are living underneath of 20 miles at United States and the height of Mole People is about 8 to 10 feets. It's totally higher than me and most of the people in the world. They lives like a human on the earth, they plant and they produce food too, and they don't know how to speak in English, but they got their own language. …
Guys and Gals, How are you?
In this post, I am going to share you my planning for Kota Kinabalu Trip.
This could be yours schedule to Kota Kinabalu, Sabah.
So here we go, The
Schedule for Kota Kinabalu Trip.There are 5 persons in this trip and my father drove a Proton Wira to make the trip successful without any time delays. 17 May 2012 Please remember be hydrate and hydrated on the plane.
While waiting for the time to get board, friends and I were have a drink at Old Town White Coffee, LCCT.
Yeah! It's time to on board. Arrived to KKIA and then go Tanjung Aru, Kota Kinabalu to take
supper. After that, check in hotel that we booked.(Tune Hotel) ~Good Nights~ 18 May 2012 Morning & Afternoon: Take breakfast near
1Borneo, then heading to Kundasang, Kundasang War Memorail, Sabah
Tea Plantation, Poring Hot Spring,
Tagal Sungai Moroli, Kampung Luanti -
Fish Massage. Night: We were decided going back to Kota Kinabalu Town and stay for a night…
Want to travel to Pulau Ketam, Klang.
The only way to make yourself there is to take a boat in Port Klang. By the way, your car may park at Complex Dato's Shaari Jihin. Location: Direction
After you have park your car in the carpark, you may proceed to south port and purchase the ticket to Pulau Ketam. There are two counters selling the boat ticket. The speed boat cost at RM 10 for 20 minutes rides and slow boat cost at RM 8 for 45 minutes rides.
We took the slow boat as this was our first time travelling to this island. You may follow the people and walk through the bridge to board the boat.
The boat is a small boat and they have on board entertainment as well.
You may take picture along the way to Pulau Ketam as there might have something inspire you.
We are disembark from the boat and the jetty is so windy until you will love the environment so much.
Pollution is anywhere near the village and I hope the villages can be responsible on it. If they do not take care of it, so who e…
Langkawi 2013 trip Version 1.
I took three days holiday to this small island which can be travel by car round an island for only in 45 minutes.
Anyways, this is not the main point of the trip.
I found that, all the chocolate and alcohol drinks are so much cheaper than anywhere in West Malaysia. (Labuan Island is another place wheres duty free in East Malaysia)
Let's start the journey of langkawi for 3 days 2 nights trip.
Again I chosen Airasia as the transport to Langkawi Island.
The first thing amaze me when just landed to Langkawi International Airport.
The first was upside down.
View of Langkawi International Airport.
The hotel that i spended for 2 nights with bad breakfast buffet I ever ate.
Hotel Bahagia, Kuah.
Duty Free Town, Kuah Town.
The most highlighted shop in the town.
The beautiful night line when I heading to my dinner destination.
This is my first dinner of the trip at Langkawi.
Dataran Helang. Night View.
31st August 2014 (Sunday) 11:45 AMFlight
“Departure to Hat Yai” (Hat Yai Airport)12:00 PMFlight “Arrival to Hat Yai” (Hat Yai Airport)12:30 PMLunch2:00 PMCheck In Hotel2:30 PMOdean Shopping
Mall 4:30 PMHat Yai Train
Station 5:00 PMWat Hat Yai Nai (Wat Mahatta Mongkronram) 5:45 PMDinner “Khlong Hae Floating Market” 7:30 PMAsean Trade
Center, Green Way Shopping (Closed at 10 PM) 1st September 2014 (Monday) 7:30 AMBreakfast near Hotel “Khornang Dim Sum”9:00 AMWat Phranon Laem
Pho 10:00 AMKhao
Noi 11:00 AMKhao Tang Kuan “Tang
Kuan Hill” 12:00 AMLunch1:00 AMSamila Beach, Ko
Nu (Mouse Island) and Ko Maeo (Cat Island), Khao Kao Seng2:00 AMWat
Matchimawat 3:00 AMMagic Eye 3D
Museum 6:00 PMDinner7:00 PMCentral Department Store 10:00 PMLee Garden Road
Side Night Market 2nd
September 2014 (Tuesday) 7:30 AMBreakfast near Hotel8:00 AMChedi
Thaimongkhon Hatyai (Phra Maha Chedi Tripob Trimongkol) 9:00 AMHat Yai Cable Car 9:30
AMHat Yai Municipal Park “Guan Yin Temple, Happy Buddha, Standing Buddha Complex” 11:00 AMH…
Happy Holiday 2015!
It's time to travel around the world again! This time I have selected Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam as my destination.
My family and I went there on 14 January - 17 January 2015. The weather seems cloudy and the temperature is 20' - 31' celsius. Please bring along your jacket at night time, the weather is pretty cold. OK!
Let's start the journey... DAY ONE~
We took Airasia flight to fly and our captain of the flight is absolute smart, we doesn't feel worry while departing and landing. He is so steady all along the way.
Here are the first view of Ho Chi Minh City, it is so gorgeous...
Tan Son Nhat International Airport, the airport management are only allow the passenger to be stay inside the airport and the rest will only able to stay outside. It is totally different from Malaysia Airport, we can walk around at the check in counter and gossip. Between, I noticed there is one feeling while we are walking out to get a taxi from the arrival hall and …
It's another trip to Penang now on April 2016. We are going from Kuala Lumpur to Penang bypass Ipoh town. In the meanwhile, lets remind you about in Ipoh and Penang the parking method is using coupon. Make sure you buy some and keep it as it maybe useful again in near future. It is valid for 3 years. Next, the first station would be "Thean Chun Restaurant:天津茶室" and go there you must eat the famous in the town pork satay and chicken slice keow teow soup. In a walking distance away, you may also get a short breath before head to Penang. It's a 1 an a half hour driving from Ipoh to Penang(if you drive fast) but just a reminder there are 2 AES speed track system install near Slim River and Taiping. Please beware and drive safe. Once you reached to Penang, due to check in time is about 3 PM. So we decided to travel around the island. The first station would be Batu Ferringhi, Penang.
I am pretty sure you are hungry already, so let start to eat your very first meal in Penang I…
These are the memories that I created and it's such a great time for me, my family and friends.
Third day (PM)
We had a lunch at Mile 8, Sandakan. Eventually, we have planned to visit the Sandakan Crocodile Adventure Land, but due to renovation, we had head back to home and take a short break before we go to take a tea break at English Tea House, Sandakan. Please do order their earl gray tea and passion fruit tea, I like it so much. The aroma is so strong and so delicious.
If you are visiting Sandakan on the Ramadan month, you can easily found a lot of evening market around Malaysia. There is one at Sandakan Town. The stalls are located in front of Nak Hotel, Sandakan.
After that, we went back home, take a bath and ready for the seafood dinner at Sim Sim 88 Seafood Restaurant which they are offering so much of seafoods and in a very reasonable prices. Please do visit and it is above the sea, so you might listening to the sea wave while eating on top.
They are showing Sandakan Town …
17th May 2014 (Saturday) Morning : Breakfast 06:30AM : Flight “Travelling
to Macau” 10:15AM : Flight “Arrival to
Macau” (Macau International Airport) Afternoon : Lunch Mazu Temple, Ruins of
St. Paul's Cathedral Macau Museum 2:00 PMCheck in hotel (Towns well Hotel @ Macau,
No 6-6A Calcada das Verdades, Macau City, Macau) “Pork Chop Bun”
(Tai Lei Loi Kee, @ 18 Rua Governador Tamagnini Banbosa R/C, Vila de Taipa.) –
about 3pm The
Venetian Macau, Galaxy, Sand Macau
Fisherman Wraft Macau Tower (MOP 135)
Observation Deck Night :Dinner Magaret’s
Café’s e Nata (Eat Portugese Egg Tart) Grand
Lisboa (Casino) 18th May 2014 (Sunday) Morning :Breakfast Largo
De Senado, Leitaria I Son (義順牛奶公司) (Dessert) 12:00 PMCheck out hotel (Towns well Hotel @ Macau) Afternoon :Terminal
Maritimo (Take ferry to Hong Kong) HKD 160 2:00 PMCheck in hotel (Yessinn, Fortress Hill,
Hong Kong, 294 King's rd, North Point, Hong Kong) “Tram” From
Fortess Hill t…